In exciting surrogacy news is the upcomming ultra sound scan on January 2!
We, of course, are excited to get to see M and the babies again.
The last time we saw M was simply fantastic. We went to an ultra sound, had lunch and M had an extra special surprise, our babies heartbeats! When she went to the OB in early December she recorded the babies heart beats, and it was so amazing to hear the little swish swish of their hearts. It was comforting and so amazingly thoughtful of her!
The good news is, I should be able to attend the next OB appointment, so M does not have to go alone and I get to meet the OB (who M just loves so I am very excited to meet her).
Ps – We have decided that I will tell my mother, that parameters will be placed and that they WILL NOT be welcome for the first 6 weeks after the baby is born – I know lots of you mentioned the need for HELP, but my mother would be anything BUT a help, I know it is hard for some people to grasp but I really DONT WANT HER HERE (SHE WILL NOT HELP), it may be stressful enough, the last thing I need is her to add more stress to the situation by having to take care of my mother.